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Announcing Valeri’s Focus on Training and Behavior Coaching

January 25, 2026

Professional Dog Training and Behavior Coaching

Science-Based. Force-Free. Built on Trust.

Dogs are always communicating. My work is about listening — and helping both dogs and their people understand one another with clarity, compassion, and guidance.

I’m Valeri Sheme-Stallings, a professional dog trainer and behavior coach with over 25 years of hands-on experience working with dogs in real-world environments. My approach is grounded in positive reinforcement and force-free training methods, designed to help dogs make good choices while strengthening their bond with their guardians.

Training should build confidence, trust, and joy — never fear.

Valeri Ready for a Dog Hike

Training Philosophy with Dogs

I specialize in science-based, ethical dog training that respects dogs as thinking, feeling individuals. Using modern learning theory and applied behavior analysis, I help dogs learn practical, humane, and sustainable skills for everyday life.

This approach emphasizes:

  • Clear communication with your dog or puppy
  • Motivation and engagement
  • Emotional safety
  • Consistency without coercion when training your dog

There are no intimidation tactics here — only methods that support learning and preserve the relationship between dogs and the people who love them.

Valeri’s Experience & Credentials as Dog Trainer & Behaviorist

My work is shaped by both formal education and decades of direct observation in dynamic group settings with dogs and their owners.

  • Certified Professional Dog Trainer (CPDT-KA) – CCPDT
  • B.S. in Animal Science & Applied Behavior Analysis
  • 25+ years as a professional handler and trainer
  • Owner and operator of four doggie daycares in California since 2003
  • Daily observation of up to 65 dogs at a time, offering deep insight into canine communication, social structure, and stress signals

I also spent two years writing a weekly advice column, “Speaking for the Dogs,” for the Lake County Record-Bee, helping pet parents better understand behavior, training choices, and canine wellbeing.

Valeri Sunset Hiking with her Dog

Areas of Focus

I support dogs and their people across a wide range of needs and life stages, always with an emphasis on clarity, safety, and emotional regulation.

Training & Foundations

  • New Puppy Foundations
  • Basic Manners & Life Skills
  • Canine Good Citizen (CGC)
  • Therapy Dog Preparation

Behavior Support

  • Reactivity & Mild Aggression
  • Separation Anxiety
  • Confidence Building & Emotional Regulation

Sport & Enrichment

  • Agility
  • Flyball
  • Nosework

As this area of the site continues to evolve, private training and behavior coaching options may be added for dogs who benefit from more individualized support.


Education, Advocacy & Community

This work is about more than obedience with your dog — it’s about advocacy, understanding, and access.

My goal is to share ethical, well-informed training guidance with integrity, and to make reliable information available to dog guardians from all walks of life — including those who may be financially challenged but still deserve trustworthy, science-based support.

Through this work, I share:

  • Training tips and behavior insights
  • Nutrition considerations for your dog’s diet
  • Personal experiences from decades in the field
  • Current trends and thoughtful discussions
  • Inspiring videos and everyday moments that reflect the human-dog bond

Speaking for the Dogs

This page represents a fresh chapter after my original training platform was compromised — but my mission has never changed.

I am here to speak for the dogs, support the people who care for them, and promote training practices rooted in respect, compassion, and evidence.

Together, we can help dogs — and the humans who love them — thrive.

Follow Along for Ongoing Education

You can find regular training insights, discussions, and updates on my Facebook training page:
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Thesis by Valeri – Dog Owners Reinforce Leash Reactivity, “an interesting read”

August 18, 2018

Here’s an excerpt into what you can expect from the Thesis, click at the link at the end of this post to read more.

The purpose of this project is to provide information that supports the hypothesis that positive punishment method of training dogs reinforces leash reactivity and should not be used. Using positive reinforcement methods of training to teach dogs how to respond to stimulus to reduce and eliminate reactivity is the best approach to behavior modification.  This research project will support evidence of how dog owners create and reinforce leash reactivity as well as the best treatment plan to help overcome leash reactivity, keep people walking their dogs safely, and keep dogs in their homes. 

What is leash reactivity and why is it a problem and how do we reinforce it?

Leash reactivity is also describes or known as “Leash Aggression,” “Barrier Frustration,” or “Leash Frustration.” For the purpose of this article, we will refer to this behavior as Leash Reactivity. Leash reactivity occurs between a dog owner/dog walker, and the dog. Leash reactivity is described as anything that is an unwanted behavior while on a walk and on a leash. Barking and pulling on the leash towards other dogs are some of descriptions of leash reactivity behaviors. Other behaviors that fall under the category of leash reactivity are, whining, spinning, frequent marking, biting at the leash, or even a redirected bite to the dog owner. It is stated that leash reactivity can be genetic, hormonal, or territorial, but in most cases leash reactivity is a learned behavior. Leash reactivity behavior can be initially derived

Dog Owners Reinforce Leash Reactivity from the barriers to meet and or play with other dogs as well as the aversive tools and techniques we use to attempt to correct this as an undesirable behavior. Leash reactivity is likely reinforced by dog owners failed attempts at applying a positive punishment technique for initial undesirable behaviors. This process becomes a vicious cycle. The dog is reactive, the dog owner applies positive punishment, and the dog becomes more reactive. 

Leash reactivity is a problem. Studies have shown dogs with leash reactivity fail to meet basic welfare needs, which include exercise and socializing with con-specifics (Webster, 1994).  Leash reactive dogs will not be walked, exercised, and often not socialized. Reactive dogs are often neglected participation in extracurricular activities. Companion dogs that are leash reactive can become banned to the home, relinquished, or the most critical, they can be euthanized. Positive punishment plays the largest role in reinforcing leash reactivity. When positive punishment fails, the leash reactivity continues to be reinforced.  Animals have been shown to respond to painful stimuli with aggression. Painful aversive stimuli used incorrectly and with bad timing can lead the dog to misinterpret the situation and through the process of attempting to distance himself, become leash reactive.  The tools used for leash reactivity range from a sharp tug on the leash to a choke, prong or shock collar. All of these tools are aversive tools and positive punishers if effective. Discontinuing the use of positive punishment methods and attempting to put the dog on extinction as well as incorporating positive reinforcement methods of behavior modification 

Dog Owners Reinforce Leash Reactivity programs have become the best advised choice of correcting behavior problems and leash reactivity. Positive punishment is advised to be avoided.  The punisher would be considered a successful tool to manage the behavior if the dog ceased the undesirable behavior after one or two attempts, but often this type of punisher fails with this behavior.

Filed Under: Dog Fun Facts, Dog Training, For Dog Owners, The Send Rover On Over Way, Valeri On Dogs

Socialize Your Puppy – It’s Good for Everyone!

February 18, 2018

Socialize your puppy!!!!

This is a great article (see below) on recent studies about the benefits of early puppy socialization programs. New puppy parents are still informed to keep them home until they are 16 weeks of age and fully vaccinated. This is not the best advice if you would like to have a happy healthy confidant social adult dog. Socializing means exposing them to a variety of sites and sounds and people and children and men all well before 12 weeks of age. You do this by strolling them, carrying them, carting them, and driving them.

Do not put them on the grass or dirt or sand at this point. Also, do not expose them to dogs that are. It’s potentially no healthy and you do not know if they like puppies or not.


Extra Early Socialization for Puppies Makes a Big Difference By Zazie Todd, PhD

A new study by Dr. Helen Vaterlaws-Whiteside and Amandine Hartmann (Guide Dogs National Breeding Centre) (2017) tests an improved program for socializing puppies in the nest from 0 – 6 weeks. The program provides additional socialization in a way that is relatively cheap, easy to implement, and designed to fit with what science tells us about the development of puppies.

In comparison to puppies receiving the regular socialization program, the puppies who got extra socialization got better scores in tests at 6 weeks old. By 8 months of age they were less likely to have separation-related behaviours, general anxiety, be distracted, or have body sensitivity.

In other words, the extra socialization brought important benefits for their behavioral welfare as young adult dogs. These results will be of particular interest to those who breed and train service dogs, but they are important for anyone who cares about dogs – especially those looking to get a puppy.

To read the full article on Companion Animal Psychology’s website, please click here.

Filed Under: Dog Fun Facts, Dog Training, For Dog Owners, The Send Rover On Over Way, Valeri On Dogs

P is for PUPPY: The A B C’s of Puppy Training: Positive, Proactive, Preventative Puppy Training

July 12, 2015

P Is For Puppy by Valeri StallingsWe are excited to let you know about Valeri’s first book about positive and proactive training for your puppy. As many of you know, Valeri has started many programs geared towards developing your puppy’s behavior helping them to become well mannered and happy dogs. We encourage you to check out the book, just click here to learn how to order it on Amazon.com.


From Valeri … The bottom line is, This book is intended to prevent you from screwing your puppy up! And vice versa. ‘P is for Puppy’ is a positive, proactive, and preventative approach to training your new pup. Positive reinforcement methods are the best way to train your pup and establish a bond using rewarding, fun, and scientifically proven ways of teaching your pup how to learn. Proactive means to take the initiative now to groom the path of your puppy to become your desired temperament of adult dog. Preventative is having the tools to understand what works best during the early learning phase and what may result in your puppy growing up to be a neurotic and behaviorally undesirable adult dog. This book will start you on the journey of how to teach your pup the bare bone basics of becoming a happy, well mannered, social, and lovable adult dog.

Filed Under: Announcements, Dog Training, For Dog Owners, Valeri On Dogs

Prong Collars Do More Harm

March 3, 2015

Prong Collar-examplesOkay guys, I don’t do this often but it is time for me to get on my high horse!  PRONG COLLARS!!!  🙁

I recently had a puppy great Dane come in for its’ puppy all star test in a prong collar! I was already a little uptight from my sad week after losing my dog, and seeing this puppy in this prong collar really set me off! I tried to stay calm but I couldn’t help the feeling of over whelming emotions that took place within me as I watch these people walk into my facility with the puppy with the prong collar on!!! I don’t want to alienate anyone,  But …

For those of you that know I am totally anti-aversive to these tools. And, I used them 10 years ago because I didn’t know any better.

During my recent years of education and research studies has led me to have a better educated scientific understanding of what these tools to do. You really can’t believe anybody that tells you that this is a tool that will not hurt your dog. That is what it is supposed to do people! It is called a pinch collar or a prong collar. The purpose of this device is to apply an aversive stimuli or something your dog does not like or en- joy, that is unpleasant, that makes them stop doing what you don’t want them to do!

Inexperienced, uneducated trainers and people who think that they mean well will advise you to use these products. I am surprised in this day and age they are even available to access. I have one thing to say at this point in time.

QUESTION AUTHORITY!!! Anybody that wants to put one of these tools on your dog because your dog doesn’t walk nice or jumps or exhibit some other puppy like untrained unmannerly behavior, ask them where they have received their educated scientifically-based information about this tool from? The bottom line is you need to understand this tool is meant to hurt your dog. It doesn’t matter if it’s positioned properly or if it’s supposed to simulate the bite of a mother wolf, all boloney!

The fact is, you will more than likely get a quick response from your dog in the direction you were seeking after applying this tool but in the long run without this tool, your dog has learned nothing and will continue the behaviors they exhibit without this tool. Most of you know I try and keep my comments positive, but it’s now time to get the message out to at least a handful of people again.
Let’s not end without an alternative. P+ training and no pull harnesses. 🙂

Thanks for reading … please share.

Filed Under: Dog Training, For Dog Owners, Valeri On Dogs Tagged With: prong collars

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